Coming into a remote village like
Niemene, you can feel the difference to larger cities, or villages
that are closer to main traffic routes. After a few hours, you still
feel the difference; but you can't quite place your finger on the
what it is exactly that makes this place that way.
The noise is the same. Motos running
everywhere, children screaming, animals bleeting and crying, and at
least one if not two or three radios playing different music at the
same time. The amenities and architecture are the same. Squat pots
(glorified holes in the ground) for toilettes, no running water, bare
wire electricity in cement cinder block buildings standing next
gardens and fields for planting.
Still the feeling persists. This place
is different. And then as you are walking around meeting the
principal of the primary school, the elders of the church, and
finally the Chief of the village; it hits you.
In the first 3 hours of your visit to
Niemene, you've waited in a boutique for 30 minutes getting
directions to the church from the 5 people who have been there all
day, been picked up by a stranger who turned out to know your friends
and took you to their house, visited the pastor, visited your friends
house and family, visited all the notable persons of Niemene and
greeted every other person along the way. The list seems too long for
the short amount of time, but not once in those 3 hours was their a
sense of rushing, no hurrying to the next thing, simply a calm
peaceful movement from place to place, person to person, meeting to
meeting. Anthropologists call this an event vs time focused culture
meaning that people finish one event first regardless of the time, be
it 15 minutes early or 3 hours late. In other words here in Niemene
and in other small villages, the pace is different.
But for me there is more than just a
difference speed to life. There is a reminder to slow down and
breathe, to see people and hear their stories, to leave the
production schedule and its demands behind and enjoy the moments
right here. This pace, while slower, leaves more room. More room not
to be filled with more activities and things, but to do things
differently, to appreciate each event, person, place, action, and
view as full gift. This slower pace allows and even creates fullness
and richness of life. And in my life which already seems to full,
this is a much needed reminder.